Asalkhan_05

I got that happiness is not about money

it is not about being in hustle and bustle

it is not about dressing so stylish or eating luxurious foods or being with someone

it is about you and your action and your niyyah

so if you set goal which is really important and if you start taking a little bit steps towards it despite of being slow you realize that you're getting close and close and you know that the path you chose is the right path that's what make you happy and satisfied even there are distraction on your way you can get back on and continue that's what makes you hope to the end. this gives you everything along the way: money, status,friends everything but now your aim is not something temporary

I got that if you use social media too much in fact you start being socially inactive over time. and this cause you to use more and more social media. and that creates social anxiety eventually you end up being isolated from your social life.

understand that you don't have to take everything you want you don't have to have everything you wanted. this only increases your desire more and more. you take something you wanted on time then you will be bored and there is nothing you can get from it because it is free and easy and you find it worthless

choose a little bit difficult way and see what magic happens to you

your mood your well being will be way to high.

don't think this difficulty is harmful or real nonsense but there is sweet spot you get it after you preserve your progress despite of any hardship

you only have to expect from Allah

don't expect from people at all

if they give you something then regard as Allah gave that through this person and be grateful to it

don't expect more or think it is worse than you wanted. what Allah gives you is the best for you

but you don't understand it right away.

if you wanna don't get hurt then solely focus on yourself. on your growth,on your care, people are meant to be hurt and to hurt especially the loved ones. don't give them the power that can break you totally ruining your life. don't take their injustice actions seriously towards you