Kelayotgan tuyani ko’rganlar so’rashdi.
- Qayerdan kelyapsan?
- Hammomdan.
- … ha, hammomga borganing tizzangdagi qotib yotgan kesak va tezaklardan bilinib turibdi…
Mavlono Jaloliddin Rumiyning “Masnaviy”laridagi bu kichik hikoya hozirgi kunimimizdagi ko’pchilik odamlarni yashash tarzini shundoq ko’rsatib qo’yadi.
Boy odam “Men Boyman” demaydi, uni o’zida, hatti harakatida, fikrlashida, bajaradigan ishlarida boy ekanligini ko’rasiz.
Ilmli odam “Men ilmliman” demaydi. So’zi, amali, munosabati va muomilasi uni ilmli ekanligini bildiradi.
Sog’lom odam “Men sog’lom odamman” deb hammaga gapirib yurmaydi. Uni yurish-turishida sog’lom ekanligini ko’raverasiz.
Kuchli odam “Men kuchliman” demaydi. U o’zini kuchiga mos yukni ko’rarishi, ishni bajarishi bilan kuchini ko’rsatib turaveradi.
Lekin biz qanday holatga keldik?
O’sha tuyadan ham battarroq holatdamiz. Yana shaltog’imiz osilib yotipdi.
O’zini bahtli ekanligini ko’rsatishga urunadiganlar qancha. Lekin tizzasida tezagi shundoq qotib turibdi. U yog’ini kesgan, bu yog’ini ulagan, o’zidan kimnidir yasagan, unga bo’layotgan e’tiborni hammaga doston qilgan, o’zi haqida intriga qilgan. Hammasi odamlarga aytish, ko’rsatish, bildirish uchun.
Buni gapirsam shunchalar ko’pki, o’qiyverib zerikib ketishingizdan cho’chiyman. Shu sababdan qisqa-qisqa misollarda keltirib o’taman.
Yana biri Boy ko’rsatishga urinadi, hammaroq arenda yoki qarz.
Chiroyli ko’rsatishga urunadi, o’zini tanasini tabiiy joyi yo’q.
Kuchli ko’rsatishga urunadi. Kuchi faqat ojizlarga yoki ojizalarga yetadi. Aytadiyu, “Kuching hotining bilan yosh bollaringa yettimi” deb.
Ilmli ko’rsatishga urunadi. “Proffesional psixolog”, “Xalqaro toifadagi expert”, “N1 Psiholog”, “Affermatsiyalar qirolichasi”, “Qalbshunoslar malikasi”, “Qo’shnimizdan o’zini o’zi tayinlab olgan elchisi”… Bu nomlarni uoarga kim bergan? O’zlari… Huddiki samotsenkalarini oshirish uchun. Buni ruschasiga “Самозванец» deyiladi. (o’zbek tilida yo’q ekan bunday so’z. “Firibgar” degan ma’noni bildirishini topdim).
matn kochirma
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