SEEKING A COMPATIBLE SPOUSE.
Marriage isn\'t child\'s play; as such, you must choose carefully and intelligently. As a Muslim, whether you are male or female, seeking a compatible partner involves considering many factors. By prioritizing compatibility, you need to identify your non-negotiables, such as your deen, mode of dressing, halal lifestyle, truthfulness, trustworthiness, integrity, and leadership.
Before saying \'I do,\' learn to know your priorities. Know what you\'re looking for in a man or woman. You must look for a partner who shares the same Islamic values and principles as you: someone reliable, respectful, and supportive, with good character, morals, and manners. Someone who listens effectively, has good communication and conflict-resolution skills, good financial stability, emotional maturity, and accountability. Above all, someone with sound creed, piety, and humility.
I know you\'ve been waiting for the right person to come your way. When the opportunity arises, take the advice and support of your family, friends, and community seriously. Seek guidance and Allah\'s help through Istikhara. This isn\'t the time to overlook checking a person\'s background or associations. Be patient and don\'t rush into a decision without making your findings, with the help of your parents and others. May Allah grant your heart\'s desire.
Aameen
SEEKING A COMPATIBLE SPOUSE.
Marriage isn't child's play; as such, you must choose carefully and intelligently. As a Muslim, whether you are male or female, seeking a compatible partner involves considering many factors. By prioritizing compatibility, you need to identify your non-negotiables, such as your deen, mode of dressing, halal lifestyle, truthfulness, trustworthiness, integrity, and leadership.
Before saying 'I do,' learn to know your priorities. Know what you're looking for in a man or woman. You must look for a partner who shares the same Islamic values and principles as you: someone reliable, respectful, and supportive, with good character, morals, and manners. Someone who listens effectively, has good communication and conflict-resolution skills, good financial stability, emotional maturity, and accountability. Above all, someone with sound creed, piety, and humility.
I know you've been waiting for the right person to come your way. When the opportunity arises, take the advice and support of your family, friends, and community seriously. Seek guidance and Allah's help through Istikhara. This isn't the time to overlook checking a person's background or associations. Be patient and don't rush into a decision without making your findings, with the help of your parents and others. May Allah grant your heart's desire.
Aameen
